Yep, would be 2-2 split. Only way I can see around it is having both the Haemie and Urien leave at the same time (no books in front of me, but IIRC you check to see if ICs have left their unit at the end of the movement phase), thus allowing you to keep 2 on the Grotesques and have have one on each of the ICs. Urien can then rejoin the Grotesques in the next turn, giving them 3. Rather convoluted though, and rather dangerous when Grotesques are involved!