I like your username considering your theme
http://www.dakkadakka.com/wiki/en/Dark_Eldar_Tactica_Part_1
There's a good basic 'DE and you' info dump I did on Dakka, also includes other useful links.
Your list of models you love is mostly okay, but I just want to point out a few things;
Archon - assault HQ
Scourges - anti mech FA slot
Grots - anti...well, anything they get their hands on
but anti-infantry really - Elite slot
Vipers (I'm huessing you mean Venom) - anti infantry transport
Voidravens - anti mech Heavy slot
Razorwing - anti-infantry Heavy slot
Okay, the conflicts in theme I see are this - first, grots can't use Venoms, so they'll need WWPs or Raiders (footslogging really isn't a sensible option)
Army lists filled with Razorwings *and* Venoms will have a lot of problems killing mech.
Personally I don't like Voidravens, but it looks like they're probably your optimal heavy slot. You'll also still want to add in more anti-mech shooting, so some Scourges will work okay for that.
The rest of your army can work pretty well with Archon/Haem in a Raider with Grots and assorted Troops in Venoms (generally with more anti-mech tools as the Venoms will cover your anti-infantry that the Archon and/or Grots don't.
Hope that helps.